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	<title>Thoughts of a Young Executive</title>
	<updated>2010-03-10T05:18:07Z</updated>
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		<title>Common Sense Management</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="General Business" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2010-02-15T22:15:00Z</updated>
		<published>2010-02-15T22:15:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">I'm still amazed at how many managers will unwittingly play head games with people who work for them.&amp;nbsp; Notice I said unwittingly.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Most managers don't want to confuse or stress out their employees.&amp;nbsp; They want to be helpful.&amp;nbsp; So, when they have an employee who might need a light touch the manager might soft peddle.&amp;nbsp; There might be subtle suggestions and hints here and there so as to not hurt the employee's feelings, but to the detriment of execution.&amp;nbsp; Over time the manager might not see enough progress.&amp;nbsp; The manager could overcompensate because she thought the issues had been addressed with the employee.&amp;nbsp; Now you have a mad manager and a confused/hurt employee. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As managers we should always tell an employee what the real deal is as clearly as possible.&amp;nbsp; It is when we misuse the art of management to push harder or softer than &lt;em&gt;truly necessary&lt;/em&gt; is when we get in trouble.&amp;nbsp; Just be straight up with people &lt;em&gt;without being too cold&lt;/em&gt; and we'll all have a better day at work. &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Persistently Searching</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="General Business" />
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2009-11-12T03:35:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-11-12T03:35:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;How curious are you?&amp;nbsp; Do you sit back and let things happen or do you intently watch the world looking for trends and answers to questions?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;One of the jobs of an executive is to lean in and pay attention to what is happening in the world.&amp;nbsp; But this doesn't solve problems right away. Sometimes it just creates more questions.&amp;nbsp; Now it's tricky.&amp;nbsp; Do you get discouraged because the questions pile up or does it make you hungrier to find an answer?&amp;nbsp; If you want to be a successful senior exec I hope your stomach rumbles. *&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But be careful.&amp;nbsp; What will satisfy is rarely generated internally.&amp;nbsp; Good ideas come from connections you make by exploring texts and talking with others.&amp;nbsp; Sure, you might come up with a great idea once you have enough data points from experiences, reading, or talking to smart people, but don't cheat the search process.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When you are stumped dive into books, articles, and conversations.&amp;nbsp; If the answer eludes you; keep searching.&amp;nbsp; Be persistent.&amp;nbsp; There is another article to read or another person to talk to somewhere.&amp;nbsp; The answer will come in due time, but only if you keep looking.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;*This longing or searching is not just about answering business questions.&amp;nbsp; As human beings we are all geared toward longing and searching for the infinite.&amp;nbsp; That rumble in your stomach might not be about business.&amp;nbsp; Unless you spend the time to find out you will never know. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>It's about the calories!</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Wellness" />
		<updated>2009-09-23T01:37:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-09-23T01:37:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;Well, at least someone said it.&amp;nbsp; We all know it to be true, but we just want to lie to ourselves I guess.&amp;nbsp; (I'm included in this)&amp;nbsp; If we have a weight problem the thing we must do is eat less calories.&amp;nbsp; Exercise alone doesn't get us to the promised land as shown by &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1914857-1,00.html"&gt;this article.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Don't shoot the messenger.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>A Healthy Posture</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Wellness" />
		<updated>2009-06-26T21:23:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-06-26T21:23:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Here is a &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://artofmanliness.com/2009/06/21/30-days-to-a-better-man-day-22-improve-your-posture/"&gt;great article on posture&lt;/a&gt; from the Art of Manliness.&amp;nbsp; Makes me sit up a little straighter just thinking about it.&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Sick of Transparency Talk</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Marketing" />
		<updated>2009-06-26T21:13:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-06-26T21:13:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Like any trend, I'm just sick of hearing about the importance of transparency.&amp;nbsp; Not that transparency is bad.&amp;nbsp; It has just reached a point where it is a buzz word.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So, take a &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/06/magicians-sausage-makers-and-transparency.html"&gt;look at this article&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Makes a good case for when you should be transparent and when you shouldn't.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Healthcare Costs</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Wellness" />
		<updated>2009-06-15T16:53:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-06-15T16:53:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Here is a crazy trend we learned about a few weeks ago.&amp;nbsp; Just one year into our wellness program, we are seeing a decline in the use of prescription drugs for things like acid reflux.&amp;nbsp; Why is this?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Well, the biggest push in the program is for people to eat healthier/less.&amp;nbsp; It is the most simple and effective thing we can do to improve our health.&amp;nbsp; When people start to eat better they have to rely less on medication to help acid reflux which in turn saves all of us money.&amp;nbsp; (If you eat garbage with extra hot sauce, the likelihood you have acid reflux goes up dramatically.&amp;nbsp; Funny how that works.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, just think about if this same logic is put to use on cholesterol drugs.&amp;nbsp; Some people with a proper diet might actually be able to come off of them.&amp;nbsp; No, this won't work for people with high cholesterol genetically, but why not give it a shot?&amp;nbsp; Worst case scenario is you end up with more energy and being healthier overall.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PS- &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/moneymag/moneymag_archive/2009/07/01/105825492/index.htm?section=money_topstories"&gt;Here is a great article&lt;/a&gt; on how to keep some costs down beyond what I talked about above.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>A Bad Economy Can Make People Nicer</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="General Business" />
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2009-05-04T05:00:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-05-04T05:00:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Or at least it seems that way if you get rid of a few cancerous individuals in your organization.&amp;nbsp; You know who I'm talking about; the gossips, the whiners, the screamers, etc.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm all for saving the decent hard working people who are generally pleasant to work with.&amp;nbsp; Besides, don't we owe it to them to get rid of the jerks who make them less productive and keep the company from being a destination work place?&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Seth Godin weighs in &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/03/yeah-but-he-really-knows-his-stuff.html"&gt;here.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Stupid Title</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2009-03-25T14:50:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-03-25T14:50:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;The CEO title sure can squash challenges to an idea.&amp;nbsp; Employees don't want to disagree with me for fear of retribution.&amp;nbsp; Even though I'm not a scary guy (I don't think so, but what do I know?) those three letters on my business card can be.&amp;nbsp; That's why I have to lean on different groups to keep my head on straight; my direct reports, outside advisers, friends, and my wife.&amp;nbsp; For right now, I'll just focus on an outside adviser story.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yesterday, while at Power Creative in Louisville I was reminded how an outside perspective can bring a CEO humility. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The folks at Power are helping South Central Sound hammer out a brand identity so we don't wander on our marketing message.&amp;nbsp; So, they obviously wanted to hear some of the spots I helped write for South Central Sound over the last year.&amp;nbsp; I knew I was in trouble when one of their team flatly said, "we'll write those from now on". &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And there's my dose of humility for the day.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sure, it doesn't feel good when this happens.&amp;nbsp; Still very necessary.&amp;nbsp; We all need people around us that can burst a balloon or three to keep our feet somewhere near the ground.&amp;nbsp; I just need to surround myself with more than the average person because my title insulates me. &amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;PS - No, they didn't pan all of the spots.&amp;nbsp; Some of them were pretty good.&amp;nbsp; (My writing partner gets the credit for those)&amp;nbsp; The problem with the spots was consistency and not a strong enough direction/theme.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Besides, it is really hard to write spots about your own company.&amp;nbsp; You can't read the label if you are inside the bottle.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Save some money</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Misc" />
		<updated>2009-02-23T21:03:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-02-23T21:03:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Saving money is all the rage right now.&amp;nbsp; I'm happy to contribute to said rage.&amp;nbsp; Check out &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://www.thisoldhouse.com/toh/article/0,,20250928,00.html"&gt;50 tricks for Do It Yourself savings&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Something to Think About</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<updated>2009-01-25T16:11:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-01-25T16:11:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2009/01/lonely-scared-bitter.html"&gt;Something to think about.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Not Just For Men</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2009-01-14T17:57:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-01-14T17:57:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">I am fan of the Art of Manliness Blog.&amp;nbsp; The simple goal is for men to be the best they can be.&amp;nbsp; However, t&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://artofmanliness.com/2009/01/11/being-your-own-man/"&gt;his post on being your own man&lt;/a&gt; isn't just for men.&amp;nbsp; It's for women too.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The part I especially like deals with having supporters and people who like you.&amp;nbsp; Inherently, they are important, but I had not fully considered the issue in depth before.&amp;nbsp; Here's the gist, but you should &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://artofmanliness.com/2009/01/11/being-your-own-man/"&gt;read the whole article.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At times we are seduced by so thoroughly being our own person that we trick ourselves into thinking that it is ok if no one likes us.&amp;nbsp; "What do they know anyway, I'm trying to do something great here."&amp;nbsp; This is a trap and flawed.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We should be concerned if no one likes us.&amp;nbsp; It may be a sign we need to modify our behavior because we are so far off base.&amp;nbsp; On the opposite side we shouldn't be deluded that we can get everyone to like us.&amp;nbsp; Coming into the middle from the edges (loved by all vs hated by all) should not be looked at as selling out to the middle; just balancing life.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Tips from T Bucket</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Wellness" />
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<updated>2009-01-11T18:22:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-01-11T18:22:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">If you want some tips on how to survive the recession, I give you &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://open.salon.com/content.php?cid=70511"&gt;T-Bucket&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; He may be crass, but don't let that scare you. &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Cookies and Information</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="General Business" />
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2009-01-08T21:12:00Z</updated>
		<published>2009-01-08T21:12:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">There are two things I crave;&amp;nbsp; cookies and information.&amp;nbsp; Since I have to drop some weight and wanted a cookie, I thought taking a break for some information was better.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Fortunately, a quick web search brought me to &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://prevential.com/success-factors-benjamin-franklin-quotes/"&gt;Benjamin Franklin's Top 5 Tips for Success&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; I especially like the one that states there is something more important than being well spoken.&amp;nbsp; Enjoy. &lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>We Can Choose Our Attitude.</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Radio" />
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2008-12-10T17:58:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-12-10T17:58:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;Everyone talks about how bad things are, but no one talks about how we can choose to be positive.&amp;nbsp; Well, except &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://adage.com/smallagency/post?article_id=133131"&gt;this guy&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; He's right you know.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now is always a good time to take responsibility for our actions and attitude.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Article on creativity</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="General Business" />
		<category term="Marketing" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2008-11-09T23:57:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-11-09T23:57:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">Great article on creativity from Advertising Age &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://adage.com/smallagency/post?article_id=132206"&gt;here.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; Keep the faucet dripping.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;</content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Don't react; respond.</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2008-11-09T23:40:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-11-09T23:40:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;As soon as I read &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/11/reacting-respon.html"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt; by Seth Godin I knew it to be true.&amp;nbsp; So hard to do though.&amp;nbsp; Many of us wait for things to hit and then quickly react to them.&amp;nbsp; We don't think about an appropriate response, we jump and wait for the next issue or crisis.&amp;nbsp; The article makes a good case for us to take a moment to think about how we should respond to stimuli instead of reacting emotionally.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a target="_blank" href="http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2008/11/reacting-respon.html"&gt;This article&lt;/a&gt; is much more about business.&amp;nbsp; It has implications for every situation we face during our lives.&amp;nbsp; Enjoy.&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Get it Together and Get More Done</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<updated>2008-11-02T20:32:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-11-02T20:32:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;br&gt;We all cave to urgent tasks and end up doing little things that don't matter while the big stuff goes unattended.&amp;nbsp; I'm guilty as anyone.&amp;nbsp; That's why I had to pass on &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://zenhabits.net/2008/10/laser-sharp-focus-get-more-done/"&gt;this article&lt;/a&gt; about focus and getting things done.&amp;nbsp; We all need a reminder about how to be more efficient in our work.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Venting</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<updated>2008-09-04T20:16:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-09-04T20:16:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">You know those days that just kick you in the teeth?&amp;nbsp; People and things just don’t seem to go your way.&amp;nbsp; If one more thing goes wrong you feel like you just might spontaneously combust.&amp;nbsp; Frustrating and maddening isn’t it?&amp;nbsp; Hate those days. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The best way to move on is to just get it off your chest.&amp;nbsp; Take 5 minutes and vent your frustrations.&amp;nbsp; Hey, it takes less time and is a lot cheaper than hanging out with a therapist. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hold on though.&amp;nbsp; You can’t find the closest person in the hall and dump all of your frustrations and why your cat plots to use the bathroom behind the couch to frustrate you. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Say your piece to your superior/manager and always in private.&amp;nbsp; It isn’t right to make people who are coworkers or people you supervise take the brunt of this.&amp;nbsp; Just because you are having a bad day doesn’t mean you need to bring them down with you.&amp;nbsp; Always vent up.&amp;nbsp; (Yes, managers, this is part of your job.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Once you feel a little bit better and have it off your chest, move on.&amp;nbsp; Find a way to fix the problem or situation that may have brought you to this point.&amp;nbsp; It is your life and you are responsible for choosing your mood.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Besides, people who don’t want to fix problems and just like to complain are whiners like &lt;a target="_blank" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Statler_&amp;amp;_Waldorf"&gt;Statler &amp;amp; Waldorf&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Only when Muppets whine is it satirical and funny.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So, when you on the verge of a melt down take 5, vent to your manager, and move on.&amp;nbsp; It will help you get through those days where you just might burst into flames. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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		<title>Woodshed Kids</title>
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			<name>JP</name>
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		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2008-09-04T20:12:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-09-04T20:12:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;font size="2"&gt;“When you have multiple kids, somebody is always in the woodshed”.&amp;nbsp; This is a statement made by my father in response to my moaning about a business unit or person that might not be doing so well. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As a manager you must spend time on the processes/people/problems that aren’t doing what they should.&amp;nbsp; You jump in head first and fight the biggest fire before moving on to the next one.&amp;nbsp; This simple law of the business universe gulps your energy and time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And while you expend your energy on problems there are those who just keep on trudging along quietly getting things done with very little fan fair.&amp;nbsp; They get little attention because you are too busy handling problems. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;John Steinbeck, in his book Travels with Charley, put it this way.&amp;nbsp; “We value virtue but do not discuss it.&amp;nbsp; The honest bookkeeper, the faithful wife, the earnest scholar get little of our attention compared to the embezzler, the tramp, the cheat”.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You know, it doesn’t have to be this way.&amp;nbsp; Those unsung heroes who just seem to handle things without complaining need to know they are valued.&amp;nbsp; They are what hold our business, lives, and families together. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Take some time and tell the honest, the dependable, the hard working, and the caring how much you appreciate them.&amp;nbsp; Yes, the problems must get solved.&amp;nbsp; Just don’t let the good people get away while you deal with the woodshed kids. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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	<entry>
		<title>Blindspot</title>
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		<author>
			<name>JP</name>
		</author>
		<category term="Personal Development" />
		<category term="Leadership/Management" />
		<updated>2008-09-04T20:00:00Z</updated>
		<published>2008-09-04T20:00:00Z</published>
		<content type="html">&lt;font size="2"&gt;Last night a dream took me to a job interview.&amp;nbsp; Not sure what it was for, but the question came up about any blind spots I may have in my management tool bag.&amp;nbsp; It makes sense to me that this would come up in a dream, not because I’m seeking alternative employment, but because it is one of my favorite interview questions. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If it helps you follow along, equate a blind spot to a weakness; an area which you just aren’t that strong. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We all have them, but the question is fun in an interview because it takes you so many directions.&amp;nbsp; The question isn’t one dimensional; what is this person bad at?&amp;nbsp; It brings you so much more.&amp;nbsp; A few examples.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If you look at weakness you can usually see a great strength 180 degrees from it.&amp;nbsp; For me, managing high maintenance yet high productive people is a blind spot.&amp;nbsp; Getting talent to love an idea based on feeling is tough for me.&amp;nbsp; Looking on the other side of the coin you find me being analytical in decisions and trying to find the best solution.&amp;nbsp; Doing something just because I feel like it is out of the question.&amp;nbsp; Therefore you see the strength of reason.&amp;nbsp; (My wife debates this)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You also can find out if a person thinks about how to manage their weakness or if they only focus on managing others.&amp;nbsp; This is a bigger deal than might initially appear.&amp;nbsp; Much of my life has been about reading about management and trying out styles.&amp;nbsp; Many times failure has come my way because my skills didn’t fit the situation or I didn’t realize how my management style caused issues.&amp;nbsp; So, I spend much time thinking about my own actions and not just those who work with me.&amp;nbsp; Never under estimate how much our behavior impacts others. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Further, it is fascinating to hear how people deal with weakness.&amp;nbsp; Do they hide from it?&amp;nbsp; Accept it?&amp;nbsp; Use it as fuel to push forward?&amp;nbsp; It is imperative to hear the explanation.&amp;nbsp; It opens the world to how they solve problems, which is probably one of the most necessary gauges of talent.&amp;nbsp; Besides, having someone demonstrate problem solving is better than reading it as a byline in a canned recommendation. &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Can a person admit a blind spot?&amp;nbsp; They know it is there, but can they own up to it.&amp;nbsp; You would be surprised how many times people have said they never took the time to explore their weaknesses.&amp;nbsp; If they can’t demonstrate a thought process around this it makes you wonder how serious they would take employee development if they haven’t thought about their own.&amp;nbsp; Or worse.&amp;nbsp; They think they are perfect. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;No, I’m not worried that I gave up secret info about how I interview.&amp;nbsp; Maybe if people read this they will be more prepared for an interview or even use it in life beyond work.&amp;nbsp; (Most things correspond well to both) &amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Of course, if someone interviewing with me didn’t take the time to find this post, well, we know about one of their blind spots; research. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</content>
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